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0:16

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8:23

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Who ib I would say I would argue

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Adam. And. How. We can lead you

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could be on your own. Think. That's

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how it can happen that happen for me. he gets

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way. I feel it with homework

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sometimes like I don't wanna live, sit down

10:11

and or. I don't. if that's

10:13

how I feel about it. Does it feel good?

10:16

Does it? Does it ever? Does sex feel good

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for you? Yes, The

10:20

does. Okay, I. Don't

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hate it at all of this. I use

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a like yeah I want you to get

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a loving it. Is there anything that you

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did you grow up with any messaging ransacked

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said it wasn't okay to masturbate. Sort.

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Of like. I feel like it.

10:35

I definitely had a different mind for him about

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it, which is what has learned through therapy. like

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11:00

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11:02

and the way I am. Yes,

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I think so. If you've been

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assaulted, you had a sexual assault

11:09

and wage this would be about

11:11

five years ago with her. So

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about Twenty Fi this okay that

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that could be something to do

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with it is well for sure

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unresolved trauma. He had not

11:23

feeling that it's safe to be sexual. Yeah.

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It definitely takes a lot for me to

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feel comfortable with a partner. Since then, right?

11:32

That makes sense. That's a happy as

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time. I absolutely it. It is shit.

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sorry tire way of. Being.

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Sexual. And thinking about sex and

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trust so. I hear you

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on all of that and. I'm really

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12:30

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12:32

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if your brain starts going to like where am

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12:53

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12:57

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like that. Can you get yourself? That's

13:02

that's what's going. Get the you're not

13:04

broken. You know, I didn't even or

13:06

hasn't had a twenty five and and I masturbate

13:08

times. But that age and and I had it.

13:10

it was with a toy first. Yeah,

13:12

I'm with you. I didn't even think about mess. I even

13:15

know why. Funding that we

13:17

women often assume that we should be hit

13:19

overhead with desire like men are like. men

13:21

are more of responses. Must

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have already was. but they are are spontaneous men

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have been he's arousal. they get a ruptured you

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know the turned on. They. See you there

13:30

Like off but for a lot of women

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it's we responded think some not respond

13:34

to touch. having something touchy were be seeking

13:36

thought that turned you on. Could be

13:39

the things are going to get you there. But. The

13:41

mercer have been with a partner who's just touching you

13:43

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Even a phone that until you. it's gonna

14:03

be so empowering, it's going to change the

14:06

trajectory of your entire sexless. Definitely.

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Okay, thank you for your advice.

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Of course I got she'll. I

14:14

can. We have a great night they are you tell

14:16

I. I. Will

14:18

you are responsible for your own orgasm?

14:20

Now. I love what she's saying that

14:23

her partner unleash something in her. But

14:25

the truth as. She

14:27

felt safe. She allowed him to the unleash something.

14:29

But that doesn't mean that still. at the end

14:31

of the day, Were. Responsible for feeling

14:33

safe with with ourselves, safe with somebody

14:36

else. For. Explain what

14:38

feels good to us. We could explain

14:40

it to a partner but until we

14:42

take our sexual satisfaction or desires or

14:44

orgasm sent her own hands. We.

14:47

Really won't be able to for many

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laws be able to really. Explore.

14:53

And. Be as open. With. Anyone

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else until we give that same.

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Focus. And attention. To

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orgasm: I can't seem to orgasm when

15:34

we are having intercourse inside of her.

15:37

I say hard feels great by use if

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the masturbate the climax have I lost some

15:42

sensitivity your thoughts share of thing for us

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off make you sound very happy. I'm glad

15:46

you found love. Member ages only a number.

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15:51

a hawk harder to. Orgasm.

15:54

Says he remained to get erections. And.

15:56

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15:59

Other to be. Medications are taking I'm not

16:01

sure how healthy you are with you

16:03

exercise and as more blood flow to

16:05

the area. A can also help. You.

16:08

With orgasm. An. Erection the

16:10

dagger taken a blue pill which is

16:12

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16:14

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Live in zebra like I'm really healthy

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and desire but it is important to

16:20

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16:23

your testosterone sad because they be would take

16:25

a bow. Identical hormone. Those. Are all

16:27

the things that could help you from a physical perspective? Let's.

16:30

Talk about though, you're orgasm because I

16:32

feel like there's been a lot of

16:34

emphasis on her pleasure and it feels

16:36

great for you. Feel. There's a

16:39

lot of men need a different kind

16:41

of stimulation and different kind of arousal.

16:43

What? Have you in the past required to

16:45

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16:48

a different kind of touch you need or

16:50

at a different kind of arousal? Maybe there's

16:52

something yesterday as we find it was we

16:54

get older are different parts in our life.

16:56

we need different kinds of stimulation. Maybe you

16:59

he the heart of Rip? Maybe she she

17:01

could finish you off with her hand? Maybe

17:03

you need some kind of. Warm

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up at least thirty topper. There's some

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kind of fantasy you have that kind

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of amp. Your arousal is a more

17:11

rouse we are the matter what or

17:13

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17:15

we can definitely have more or that

17:17

than that way rights building arousal, teasing

17:19

each other playing before you get right

17:21

into that penetration. So. I would

17:23

think about your own arousal cycle maybe which

17:25

works in the past. And. Also, be

17:28

open to communicate her about what you

17:30

need. So. Subtle. Those boxes

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get your health tracked. Add have a

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Problem I think I'm as a

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really big deal on I was.

17:59

Married. He was in

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unison. So for twenty years to the

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thought of them. And hand

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or death and regularly

18:08

and without any problems

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Over two years and

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it had two years.

18:19

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18:23

Pay the said a say

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anything at the same person

18:28

for a. Week

18:30

and eating the nightstand type of

18:32

a personally. I like previous

18:35

relationship. And I

18:37

couldn't a whole time and he was

18:39

a very kind and generous person that

18:41

with a patient and time for them

18:43

very long periods of time. How

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18:48

your husband? What? What was going

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on of what is it during penetration? Lost. Her

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still have a hard time now that

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I've explored so much that silly in

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came. In and you will

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get the penetration. Who did he think he.

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He needed any in a certain

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increasing maybe I'd have never ever

19:10

been able to have an orgasm

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or ali he's another the i

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him and have any a you

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thought they. Knew that I will. Never

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was during patricia was are certain position

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with him. Okay as a you

19:36

try to mimic that position. Yeah. Okay,

19:39

And now there's something be said for it. Also

19:42

been in your head around it like is it

19:44

going to happen? Is it going to happen? Totally.

19:47

I feel like you after a the

19:49

sixteen years your body is a delivery

19:51

trained to have an orgasm. With

19:54

your acts and that certain way and then

19:56

when didn't happen again. With. This

19:58

person for eight months. You. Probably. you know. I think

20:01

a lot of it sounds like it says. You're. In

20:03

your head and it's anxiety that now you're worried it's not

20:05

going to happen. So it's. Not happening And

20:07

so kids the pressure off

20:09

yourselves. What? If you guys did

20:11

a few little like if you did some

20:13

mutual masturbation where you're masturbating in their masturbating,

20:15

they could watch and see what you're doing

20:17

it and you see what they're doing. You.

20:20

Can show them what eat out sick kind

20:22

of has a look with your hands to

20:24

maybe you're having an orgasm with them in

20:26

the same room for you feel like oh

20:28

I can have an orgasm with somebody and

20:30

then I would also affected your so easy

20:32

or guess because wonder. If

20:34

so much of it is or has a what are you thinking

20:36

about. During see. It just he

20:38

became a so frustrating and disappointing that

20:40

I can't have an orgasm with a

20:43

man in the thinking is this going

20:45

to be the time? As

20:47

if that is it. The. And

20:50

I'm totally in my head. Okay, so

20:52

that's exactly why and this is like

20:54

a lot of men that premature ejaculation.

20:56

It happened some once and it is

20:58

so horrifying that they can't believe the

21:00

keeps up quickly. And then they develop

21:02

the winter declaration. Ah, so not

21:04

in every case. But the happens a lot

21:06

because our brain is the most powerful sex

21:09

organs. So. Of our brain is saying

21:11

is a gonna happen is he the one

21:13

is is given that there's no space for

21:15

the energy to miss your body, for you

21:17

to feel connected, for you to feel the

21:19

sensation that are going on. And

21:21

so. I say that I

21:23

would do for practicing mindfulness. I'm

21:26

a yoga teacher. I

21:29

teach my opponent. Okay,

21:31

So. Hakim is hop. It's occasions

21:34

I forget to masturbate. I get enough hard

21:36

being a leader of himself, so. This

21:38

is amazing and of explain us people would have my

21:40

best tips is. To. Focus

21:43

on your five cents in the moment when you're

21:45

having sex with some and this will be easier

21:47

for you than than many. I think to don't

21:49

have a ari a mindless practice. You.

21:51

Might have to. Do this a hundred times or

21:53

in one session. but when you start digging is a

21:55

going to happen. you think, what am I smelling right

21:57

now You know if you're so much so that wouldn't

21:59

wanna hear that. There are around his body

22:01

what am I tasting smelling feeling and

22:03

then the second round Yourself. In.

22:05

Those five senses it immediately.

22:08

transports you to the present moment. You

22:11

can't be worrying about the future

22:13

and past. How does his penis

22:15

actually feel inside? Right out of

22:17

hand feeling the reds? Hand

22:19

ceiling this of the that feels get his hands on

22:21

my are you know to meet this of only. To.

22:24

Hide might to do it up and I'm not saying

22:26

it's gonna happen the first time, but keep going back

22:28

to your feelings of what is happening in your body

22:30

and pretty good at doing that. So another. Little

22:32

thing and may hand at the. Time.

22:35

I don't know why or how

22:38

this develops. Your partner the I'm

22:40

ever got there have been losing

22:42

more eruption. In Southern Italy,

22:44

they need to hurry. He them

22:46

on a time crunch. Oh okay, that

22:48

may be a little bit like with my.

22:51

Ex I knew he never had

22:53

a problem. For twenty years they've.

22:56

Got. An like either walk on them

22:58

in my underwear and you ready? To go

23:00

and I knew of here we go. And

23:02

then I knew I had with me. Quit speaking, he

23:04

would finity taken, I'd be quick and then he did

23:06

and it was like the think so now. I

23:09

think the men and dating are older.

23:12

To my mother, right? and and I

23:14

have this fear of ways. They lose it

23:16

in i'm about to orgasm in an urban elite

23:18

sort of action or house of the whole narrative

23:20

you've created. Look at you? yeah no idea how

23:22

the hell is the and down when on the

23:24

list and we all have our sins and know

23:26

what to think you for sharing all this because

23:28

I I can totally relate Says that died on

23:31

Ganymede staring at the clock and being like how

23:33

they were minutes didn't take me to com and

23:35

that you don't come by a you tube we

23:37

all do. These posts are as women so. He.

23:39

Says you're not a one night stand on a person.

23:41

Have you talked to any these guys about. Sex.

23:44

Mean. I've seen one of the first

23:46

day of the that is the one who told me

23:48

about you. And we have to listen

23:50

to together we. Were so open

23:52

about sex and exploring.

23:54

Different things I had. A lot of fun!

23:57

Okay, good. He's have a decent.

24:00

It might have taken my head's good movie. are

24:02

you need is for them to say I'm not

24:04

going anywhere. I don't care for these. My erection

24:06

like I will do ever can savvy orgasm. Let's

24:08

keep a toy on hand. Let me try to

24:10

go down and you may be your ex just

24:12

didn't go down a new it away and you

24:14

seek you can't com that way. To.

24:16

Visa time. But. It doesn't mean

24:18

you can. Tell them well are you

24:20

might find other things that I think this is

24:22

a great time of exploration for you. After

24:25

being in one place for one relationship for

24:27

so long maybe you don't know who you

24:29

are in your forties is different than you

24:31

were in your twenties. I know that I'm

24:33

the different person than I was. I really

24:35

give you kind of present the sex conversation

24:37

with your new partners about. Let's explore

24:39

together. I'm at a place now where I was

24:42

in another relationship and I really want to. Explore.

24:45

New paths to pleasure. And

24:48

so maybe we could slow things down and might

24:51

take me a little bit longer. I

24:53

mean that the guy was with for nine months.

24:55

He would check hours. And. I would

24:57

get. So here's an enemy I get. I get

24:59

so close. Again right there and

25:01

then like up as I give you

25:03

a law that uncle. Has

25:07

experienced more pleasure. Than.

25:09

He did with me and it

25:11

shall leave with these other two

25:13

men. Sounds like it, but I

25:15

know they're nothing like this going

25:17

over there the hell. Yeah,

25:20

I understand that. I really do. What I love

25:22

it's you're saying you we exactly the what the

25:24

challenges are Now because you're focusing on orgasm and

25:26

I help. Ease of us are a lot but.

25:29

Keep the focus of orgasms and put

25:31

the focus on pleasure. Where

25:33

does it actually feel good for me to

25:35

be touched? and that such a great mindfulness

25:37

practice to do is send any. You.

25:40

Could have it. So for fifteen minutes their

25:42

pleasing you bend your pleasing them so you

25:44

just receiving. There's like a bath and art

25:46

of receiving an abbey. them to touch you

25:48

everywhere. It sounds like though you could have

25:50

orgasms with your ex. The rest of it

25:52

doesn't sound like it was that of interesting.

25:54

Now see not rushing. he was sick as

25:56

others he. Planted some anxious season Your

25:58

add to that I got to dispatch. Sen

26:00

The new learning process here are the he does

26:02

have to be patient with yourself and realize that

26:04

you just. In this is

26:06

who you are right now and he gets explore

26:09

something you probably didn't get to do before. Okay,

26:11

I'm in meeting with these, the field and

26:13

a half of the another. The haven't heard

26:15

of anything with the man. So. That's

26:18

what happened in my how did I think. I

26:21

want to have an orgasm amount so

26:23

badly. So you know you to

26:25

set your intentions like before, Yellow Class

26:27

and someone Your affirmations. Lava I am

26:29

highly orgasmic and receiving. Allow London

26:31

pleasure. I'm I'm a highly orgasmic with man.

26:33

I can't let it slip It I lie,

26:35

let's let up. Look at the fear in

26:37

the morning. I am highly orgasmic. Oh, I'm

26:39

highly. It's just your narrative. You know there's

26:41

it's executives twisted the story and none of

26:44

it's true. Like you're gonna have an orgasm.

26:46

I'm not worried by you and all. Know

26:48

exactly what it is. You're very self aware. Yeah

26:51

okay or way that I like. Very thank

26:53

you so much for your time! I can't

26:55

wait to hear what happens! Okay,

26:57

elevating Fi as Advocate One

27:00

by. This. Because of

27:02

a group of roadblock that so

27:04

many of us experience during sex

27:06

and that is our brain is

27:09

distracting. I was telling us things

27:11

that aren't true, keeping us away

27:13

from experiencing pleasure. So.

27:16

Is this is you and I think it's a lot of as

27:18

they do A worried about. Work or

27:20

something that happened five minutes ago are worried

27:22

about thing that's gonna happen in the future.

27:25

It. Really will be helpful to share that

27:27

with a partner, but to also develop

27:29

a healthy mindfulness practice. You could try

27:31

some mindful masturbation on your own. We

27:33

you're just paying attention. To

27:35

the sensations you're having in. Your

27:38

body and method unless you're having in

27:40

your head. That's. Your helmet think.

27:43

We. Should get quick detour from today's episode

27:45

to chat with Suki Denim, the founder

27:47

of Oh My Bad. Oh My Bad

27:49

has been a pioneer in his sex

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tech movement. Three high end luxury app

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don't know, they are known for music

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You're. The leader face you slide. I'm

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excited to be here when. You.

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Truly were the innovator with oh my

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you blew. My mind was twenty years

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The Foxy and this thinks he

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showed me a prototype of it

28:35

at a trade show we go

28:37

to every year. Tuck T about

28:39

the Sphinx and what led to

28:42

the idea of craziness product. Well

28:44

it's a says your audience knows

28:46

thinks is actually and ah controlled

28:48

wearable bluetooth enabled nipple clamps I

28:50

think was cool and Zephyr about

28:53

this execution. Besides the fact that

28:55

there are control nipple clamps which

28:57

is super call in and of

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itself is the fact that was

29:01

also wanted it to feel that

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the so with sky kind of

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a style of jewelry sales who

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were so it has you know

29:10

and nice place you wear it

29:12

around your neck. The controller ah

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itself which friend of houses all

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of the electronics if you well

29:19

and then you have this chew

29:22

on nipple clamps that kind of

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come off of that though it's

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just a row. Pretty stylish execution

29:29

is than a very exciting product.

29:31

Use. It a lot There you said.

29:34

It's a bluetooth enabled remote controlled nipple

29:36

clamps and I think we had a

29:38

break all of that down because and

29:40

are like wait you had been nipple

29:42

clamps. So let's talk about nipple clamps

29:44

Madison and and then let's work visa

29:46

to that because I think the nipples

29:48

and breastplate is super underrated. We have

29:51

forget about own. I think that Vulva

29:53

owners can have a lot more simulation

29:55

they rely so have seen a nipple

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clamps him why he says innovative on

29:59

them. Little personally

30:01

one of my favorite.

30:04

Parts of foreplay and intercourse

30:06

in our there are hundreds

30:08

of nerve endings and the

30:10

nipples people with all there's

30:12

their breasts are more sensitive.

30:14

He has a four month

30:16

of though I'm also our

30:19

counterparts are penis owners also

30:21

can enjoy nipple stimulation says

30:23

he other cool thing about

30:25

this product that really thinking

30:27

about at all my body's

30:29

being inclusive and I feel

30:31

like this is. Closer.

30:33

And mastectomy a ton of work

30:36

for everybody. He other piece of

30:38

this puzzle that kind of brought

30:40

us to kind of the style

30:42

in which we designers was that

30:45

a lot of the nipple clamps

30:47

out there are at feed yes

30:49

and execution says that might involve

30:51

pain as part of the pleasure

30:54

element. This product is a little

30:56

bit more or I would say

30:58

softer if somebody wants to. Kind

31:00

of. Explore uploaded since we're

31:03

talking about vibration here. Are

31:05

wants to move the clam up and down

31:08

on the nipples kind? Of increase the

31:10

intensity in which the class and

31:12

bear it can be and much

31:14

softer. Introduction to nipples Blair.

31:17

The. Other cool thing about this product,

31:19

I don't know if I mention the

31:22

see you Back he had mentioned earlier

31:24

we just launched. I'm also a yeah

31:26

at Control. Wearable Pc vibrator, called off

31:29

each and so with Fool is you

31:31

could actually pair off the and things

31:33

together. You can use them as the

31:36

same time. He can control

31:38

of both with the off at the

31:40

same time so talked about the off

31:42

at all the different ways you can

31:44

play with. Been. By this.

31:47

What we saw in his early

31:49

he mentioned music first such kind

31:51

of where we got our start

31:53

in this industry treating music to

31:56

him vibration so that's a big

31:58

part of our as a signature

32:00

part of our off and what

32:02

we time is we've heard were

32:04

felony the either accept their apple

32:06

music library or and they can

32:08

also access their spot on music

32:10

library and even for fine my

32:12

arm on our social media we

32:15

did this little piece where we

32:17

kind of ask people to contribute

32:19

their favorite com to and on

32:21

my back playlist. okay actually search

32:23

for my my playlist on far

32:25

five on your your final as

32:27

and you can explore hundred other

32:29

people and of far experiences as

32:31

the really to music and and

32:34

they're using our products such yeah

32:36

so he has music mode ah

32:38

we have club five mil have

32:40

club find mode is really taking

32:42

an ambient sound around you and

32:44

vibrating. So. Few imagine that

32:46

you were in a club, you

32:48

were at a cocktail party, You

32:51

are in your car, your commute.

32:53

Whatever is happening from as music

32:56

career as a sound perspective is

32:58

translating right to the vibrator. So

33:00

ah we hired a customer who's

33:03

partner play the guitar, see heart

33:05

or can literally strum you to

33:07

orgasm. All the things you can

33:10

do with our news that simplifies

33:12

a then we have what we

33:14

call rhythm. And rhythm A are

33:17

basically built in migration patterns and

33:19

we change. she's off and as

33:21

to be. Ah one of the

33:23

funny thing we I oh my

33:25

god are tested fan as you

33:28

might imagine Tesla fans in terms

33:30

of the. Type of technology

33:32

that they've been able to bring

33:34

to market and in in the

33:37

cars. They have what's called ludicrous

33:39

smooth so we have a little

33:41

nice. To. Tesla in our

33:44

off and you can actually put

33:46

your vibrator now! Ludicrous mouth. We

33:48

also can't forget the odometer because

33:51

that is something new to the

33:53

you can track your orgasms. Yeah.

33:56

You didn't say he knows he can

33:58

track them on the other. Whole thing

34:00

about the app that we haven't even

34:02

talked about. Rate is the fact that

34:05

you can be anywhere in the world

34:07

and to be connected Your partner and

34:09

control is ah remotely for and Harvest

34:11

Se session together. We also have lived

34:14

in a video so you can interact

34:16

and see your partner on. You can

34:18

also send them a little own notice

34:21

so whenever you have the bait oh

34:23

you can share that with your partner

34:25

and little heart kind of float up

34:27

on the screen with oh is on.

34:30

Them. So there's all these fun things he

34:32

can do that his cell phone I'm telling

34:34

you know to everybody your partner wants to

34:36

know that you when you orgasm. Help.

34:39

We're in a relationship where they're cool

34:41

that you masturbate when you are I'm

34:43

telling you which is hop for your

34:45

partner to think that you're freezing yourself,

34:48

you're thinking about them. I almost like

34:50

this is everyone's new sexting yeah. Another

34:52

feature that we really haven't talked about.

34:55

this kind of also unique to us

34:57

is the ability to control our products

34:59

with your Apple Watch. So we have

35:01

a special mode that specifically just for

35:04

the Apple watch called Polls Mode in

35:06

impulse mood. What it does is. It

35:09

picks up your Paul's that your

35:11

Apple Watch does for you automatically

35:13

in it sends those vibrations to

35:15

your vibrator so so you're vibrator.

35:18

The nipple clamps wearable panty five

35:20

if actually can be vibrating face

35:22

your partner's Rp which is. Really?

35:25

Cool Well I love the

35:27

way this has been executed.

35:29

I was just dying to

35:32

try them. And congratulations. On.

35:35

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you tell the difference if there is one? Even.

36:11

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36:13

disagree. I'd love to get your feedback on

36:15

this. Facts. Are a

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job it's a great person. Is

36:19

a it? It makes sense right? in your

36:21

experience. some with a penis. Is

36:23

haven't heard as and at the same time

36:26

they evacuate. So. Technically a

36:28

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36:30

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36:32

and your group rock. And

36:34

the orgasm is that gluing of

36:36

pleasure. Firefox, And climax

36:38

antipathy. They do happen at the same

36:40

time as if you know were caused

36:42

by the same physical stimulation be you

36:45

could also separate them. And

36:47

it's better for men than for women. Women

36:49

who a job late often can exactly and

36:51

doesn't nestle me they have an orgasm but

36:54

remember, we typically see that the same time

36:56

which is why and understand your fish in

36:58

here. But. In some practices

37:00

like contract practices for example,

37:03

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37:05

practice the art of orgasm

37:08

with all the Japs relations.

37:10

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37:13

know preserving their see your life forces

37:15

with a college actually see him and

37:17

as a practice of just breathing and

37:20

circling in our energy through their body.

37:22

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37:24

does breathing into it and the neighbor

37:26

a practice of picturing their energy moving

37:29

from their pelvic floor up to their

37:31

higher than having it group around and

37:33

again this is a really intense practice

37:35

but I've actually no man has been

37:37

with man in study this that can

37:39

have an orgasm in their body with

37:42

out releasing ventilation. So. They

37:44

are separate and it could happen with men in

37:46

other ways as well. They can still feel that

37:48

feeling of orgasm without a judge release and many

37:50

don't have a prostate also don't exactly but they

37:53

can have an orgasm. There was a little bit

37:55

different. But. Just their boyfriends

37:57

way. this one they are separate. But.

37:59

It's a great question and it's one haven't

38:01

helped a lot so I appreciate the question.

38:03

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38:06

Dutch Way Who's twenty five?

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Hi Tray. Hideouts.

38:11

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38:13

on. So I suffer. Or I

38:15

think I suffer from what the

38:17

internet refers to as death grip

38:20

syndrome. And. That is kind

38:22

of loosely defined as. Being. Able

38:24

to reach orgasm while masturbating.

38:27

But. Due to a repetitive and

38:29

overly postscript use while masturbating.

38:32

Do. Not always able to reach

38:34

orgasm during sex and in my

38:36

case, I also struggled with. Our.

38:39

Masturbating without corn for about eight

38:41

years now. So I think time

38:43

on my. Fears. And

38:45

my brain or on a very strongly wired

38:47

to. Those. Time of them

38:50

stations and left or just and

38:52

rise to issues masturbating without it. And.

38:55

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38:57

of of the pub called me

38:59

a lot of stress and go

39:01

in on time. Just china. Words

39:05

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39:07

healthier relationship with masturbating. Uganda Lights

39:09

it's a good question is really really

39:11

com and his desk up. So what

39:13

we're saying is a cure Your penis

39:15

sort of become desensitized unless you are.

39:18

Really. like you said aggressive tight grip that

39:20

it can be difficult to reach Orgasm went

39:22

out holding your have a your had already

39:25

can be harder if you're having sex with

39:27

someone else or porn is done that nice.

39:30

To. Scenarios set up that you feel. The

39:32

Peter Peter Peter. That that your body becomes used

39:34

to it but you doesn't mean that you will.

39:37

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39:39

uses have to. Take some

39:42

action and a second to be. Easy.

39:45

But. It's totally possible and just has

39:47

to be patient. You masturbate

39:50

every single day. Now. I

39:52

do not. Okay do you

39:54

always masturbate with poor know when you

39:56

jail. Yes, and when I

39:58

try to do it without. The my

40:00

erection stuff we aren't as strong so

40:02

have that kind of use the tighter

40:05

grip to reach orgasm. Expand

40:08

tired discourages me from during that

40:10

comes along. Okay so the first

40:12

thing I would say that baby sit, Say that and

40:14

you're not going to masturbate for a week. I know

40:16

you that do it everyday that would you say? It's

40:18

few days a week. Yes, I'd say

40:20

so. Okay, so are you with a

40:22

partner right now? Now I must

40:24

have a long term relationship of six

40:27

months out of that's. Okay so I

40:29

would say go for a week and

40:31

then when you start again he just

40:33

want to go into it. Masturbating.

40:36

A Do it Slowly. And

40:39

see if you could get. An

40:41

erection with out manually setting yourself.

40:43

So it's sort of like you're

40:46

rebuilding up to that orgasm again.

40:48

And you know, Porn.

40:50

In that nic point is bad for you, but

40:53

you use the word for everybody. but you use

40:55

the word that you as you have a problem

40:57

around porn. Yeah, and so. If

40:59

you you could either avoid porn or you

41:01

could is reduced how much that you how

41:03

much you're really use it. And.

41:06

then you to decide you bring it back into

41:08

your sex life but just you wanted to a

41:10

lighter grip you want to use. You. Know

41:12

lube. Air: If you've heard

41:14

of a flashlight, it's a masturbation sleep for

41:16

a penis. yes, I've heard of that and

41:19

the whole Fast as I want you to

41:21

get more connected to your body again. Allies:

41:23

as you feel the sensations in your body

41:25

so you could. Allow lou but

41:27

it were and it will feel. Good like

41:30

it has these wages. It had that kind of

41:32

mimic. The. Naturals as a sense of

41:34

being inside of a vagina. And

41:36

then every time you bring your hands into

41:38

the lenders, your hand is now linked up

41:40

with your sexual. Clever. Everything

41:43

surrounding I'm is all about your hands. So

41:45

what I love about the idea of using

41:47

something like a masturbation sleeve? Is.

41:49

That your video started disassociate.

41:52

That. Pleasure of always eating

41:54

your hand, Points. Your penis.

41:57

So. Then your brain.

42:00

You could what happened is your brain

42:02

or prefers your hand over anyone else.

42:04

He said give me the home of

42:06

the to go. Full.

42:09

using. Something like this. He's he just

42:11

kind of the lower your brain I

42:13

traits training for to get to know

42:15

sexual satisfaction. In a real way.

42:18

Then you committee was a little bit of porn. or

42:20

maybe you'll find that. You. Just need

42:22

you know vote of I wouldn't do hardcore porn

42:24

of the people of elevating your porn have you

42:26

have to elevate the kind of porn that you

42:29

the. Job. Of kind

42:31

of them my struggle with her and

42:33

like I'd really prefer, I can eventually

42:35

get the point where I don't need

42:37

it. I can just use my creativity

42:39

in my own mind. I would

42:41

love that for you to. So if

42:43

you're willing to baby not orgasm are

42:45

not, say heart is sort of like

42:47

exercise like you want to censor certain

42:49

amount of ways, but. Is.

42:51

Up and do and first day read.

42:53

So this is really just a practice

42:55

as saying that I'm going to get

42:57

more comfortable. With. Our Porn.

43:00

Using your mind, using your imagination,

43:03

Getting. Focused on what is actually feel like right

43:05

now. Debut of it A Try it for thirty

43:07

minutes at a time. And

43:09

then you're going start again the next time

43:11

as a forty five minutes and has been

43:13

okay with not orgasm use. Wanna live. Aren't

43:16

as fodder for delivered level. Goes

43:19

I'll be here for. You can email us now a

43:21

call him again and Willa I'd love to hear it

43:23

as clever. Thank you so much for coming up present.

43:26

I. I was at. All

43:28

of us who have reliable orgasms in one

43:30

way have pretty much trade ourselves to orgasm.

43:33

We. Do with are left hand were sitting in

43:35

the certain position and we always little. we

43:37

always watch porn and that's great. I love

43:39

that everyone can have orgasms that with the

43:41

can have an orgasm that's fabulous. However,

43:44

Everything. That is worse. Having.

43:48

Low. Takes

43:50

a little the time said. so practice tix

43:53

a commitment. So is there something in your

43:55

life you wanted different kind of orgasm? You're

43:57

not happy about the were you orgasm. Right

44:00

now does work for anything. If you if

44:02

you always masturbating your stomach, you can flip

44:04

over on your back. If you

44:07

always use toys and you want to have an orgasm with

44:09

our toys and take the toy a wall. And.

44:12

To Sam was sort of think my way. there are

44:14

many just my hands again and will use lube I

44:16

promise you view the have an orgasm one way you

44:18

can have an orgasm and other ways the most of

44:20

us don't want to take steps so just had this

44:22

be a new practice. Try it out

44:24

tonight. Try with your partner. Maybe

44:27

that could have a new like let's try to

44:29

work as differently party. Cabanas. Same

44:31

team as each other, keeps other accountable, To.

44:33

Let me know goes. On. Here for you. Okay,

44:36

this is Theresa. She's feeble and

44:38

she's only years old. I

44:40

said Tommy was going on. Yeah,

44:43

so did I say I have

44:45

found it really hard for orgasm

44:47

now the President and everything that

44:50

you read online they'd say like

44:52

oh you know your orgasms are

44:54

lazy, all the blood rushing there.

44:57

And. Twenty

44:59

four hours a day. I

45:01

had no problems or yeah,

45:03

the and now it's like

45:05

so far it. Is

45:08

what I want to tell you that? I

45:10

don't know, even really am I. But it's

45:12

very very common for women have all different

45:14

experiences. I've heard that to the woman sale

45:16

of the best sex when I'm pregnant some

45:18

women say they do not and where I

45:21

have found those this third trimester. For many

45:23

women your uterus conflict track during an orgasm

45:25

because of the size of the baby. so

45:27

you might. Be. Extremely stimulated, put

45:29

on, able to have a full. On

45:32

climax over. You

45:34

might find a your first semester there was

45:36

a big leap at you. felt like you.

45:39

Know there was an extension or your by

45:41

checked his old I anatomy right? How usually

45:43

orgasm so things are changing down there like

45:45

the parts that were a place to give.

45:47

You know estimates are shifting around. Your.

45:49

Body is changing so much right

45:51

now. And yell at is probably

45:53

a big chains us in the last few months.

45:56

so. I would say. A

45:58

premier in be okay, The. Back.

46:02

And you're just getting started with this. So

46:04

that's why you pay the so many different

46:06

theories about what happens or impermissible for every

46:08

single women. It's. Different? Yes,

46:11

and for me, To

46:14

say that it was. The

46:16

first trimester year like uber bloated.

46:18

It's really an actor ball. And

46:21

me norm like are normally obsessed

46:23

with my husband at night so

46:25

that we switched it up and

46:27

we said okay let's try it

46:29

in the morning and that is

46:31

definitely more comfortable for me. But

46:33

don't worry sometimes that from anal

46:35

august and scared me. so prior

46:37

to now we haven't been led

46:39

anything anal. I

46:42

thought to myself wow wow that

46:44

let's try at. So. I

46:46

bought a vibrating applies and that

46:48

was a total game changer. so.

46:53

I am calling her

46:55

Problems persisted. Ah. Yeah

46:57

ever since it is that when that first

46:59

happening I thought oh my god that can't

47:02

be the not eight months of my life.

47:04

It's not and you already a feeling more

47:06

free and you are take the pressure I

47:08

did You have an orgasm that way with

47:10

the i'm yeah somewhat. Yeah.

47:12

Any on my band and I are so

47:14

this this this is the best anal August

47:16

story of ever heard. I'm

47:19

serious. see that is what it's floor. You

47:21

know I love this. I mean so many

47:23

things are going it you know changed throughout

47:25

but look how users adapted and you're like

47:27

okay I'm gonna try this. And am

47:30

very of your orgasm. It's really does you good

47:32

old body changing and there's probably just discomfort right

47:34

now, but sounds like you solve it. Know you

47:36

will have orgasms. All different kinds of orgasms you

47:38

have another few months now that to see some

47:41

women it's. Of her somewhat yeah, You're

47:43

gonna be fine in your exploring and you're talking

47:45

to your partner about it. You. Are ready

47:47

adapting You're already saying okay, we can't do a

47:50

ninety marlins have in the morning. Let's say about

47:52

Flood Yes I can't wait to see where you're

47:54

going to go. And

47:56

I don't even know what's gonna happen.

47:58

We all get so set and how

48:00

we orgasm and yet. Which. Expand

48:03

your definition of pleasure of

48:05

what's possible. To.

48:07

Find out you must have orgasms

48:09

realized different ways. Absolutely.

48:11

And I said. We never really explored an

48:13

the for say this is a. After

48:16

i came from the first time that

48:18

we use the library about five i

48:21

fifty thing was. That. Was

48:23

a lot of. His

48:25

image is like so much. You can

48:27

now and then stay exactly as to

48:29

how did you feel. and you have

48:32

you usually Orgasm dz Orgasm! In

48:34

prison. Is the of

48:36

penetration in cook for also like

48:38

i always orgasm on fast so

48:41

my kind of frightening on has.

48:44

An. Animal said

48:46

I'm reading saying the inside it

48:49

was a vibrator. you know, inside

48:51

my square right? I may say

48:53

it's amazing idea. The thing is

48:55

a geared your g spot or

48:58

your internal clitoral nerves is there's

49:00

a very thin membrane between your

49:02

bike. And and your

49:04

internal your your. To. G Spot

49:07

so said. I didn't make sense

49:09

has just like a very scenario so

49:11

it. That's. Like eel can

49:13

feel so good for many women. Other some vulva owners

49:15

who just don't have orgasms her earlier that their body

49:17

shapes differently but for you it sounds like it was

49:20

a great fit and enough as it can feel great

49:22

for people. but for the way you orgasm in the

49:24

way your body. Your anatomy is it sounds

49:26

like it was to say. Yes, It

49:29

was a thank you so

49:31

much for kind he really

49:33

this is so so helpful

49:35

and congratulations. For your

49:37

first baby. That my first. Entered

49:41

my second semester our hi. I'm

49:43

a little nervous about you know the whole they

49:46

bring slavery and all that but. I.

49:48

Agree on that. Silly posted all

49:50

those though. Yeah, Absolutely okay. Well

49:52

congrats feel. A Thing On

49:54

Earth by. The.

49:57

Or the thing about anal exploration? their

49:59

assessed. Whatever. Whatever

50:01

gets you excited to try it. Maybe

50:03

it's just the exploration or maybe your

50:06

inability to orgasm. This goes for all

50:08

genders. Try. A little

50:10

anal play, He. Could try it with

50:12

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50:14

toy and remember it's okay to have

50:16

sex while pregnant. Your baby is protected

50:18

by amniotic fluid. And you

50:20

feel great sex because of blood flowing

50:22

tear vulva. To be sure to

50:24

find good positions for your body since your

50:27

weight distribution is different and that will be

50:29

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50:31

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50:39

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50:41

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50:44

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50:48

Or are you? I'm. Good! How are you

50:50

think so much for calling and how can I help.

50:52

On. Our. Fab A high blood

50:55

pressure my entire life. It was

50:57

very good for my parents both added. Center.

51:00

And I've been told by doctors

51:02

that sometimes. I can get

51:04

off because. My. Blood Pressure. You know

51:06

I could have a greater x and but I can

51:08

get off because of my blood pressure. And

51:10

there's other times back and get off with

51:13

no problem. And. Or the other

51:15

times I can. I myself have

51:17

sex for two three hours about get

51:19

off. Is that a cause.by Parker. Yeah,

51:21

it. Could be if it's all about

51:23

blood slow says you're having that his

51:26

sister's just lib is less blood flow

51:28

to your penis. And so.

51:30

There. Is. An impact

51:32

it has. you have high blood pressure

51:34

that that is going to have a

51:37

direct correlation to your Watson's audible be

51:39

every time but it will could get

51:41

worse over time. They can also

51:44

interview with sexual desire as big an impact

51:46

your billie to ejaculate. So.

51:48

I would definitely talk to a doctor about it. Have

51:50

you done that yet? Yeah. Talk

51:52

to my doctor is it says you know I

51:55

have no problem get there are some but

51:57

he said my getting all of my kid. Been

52:00

caused by you know, the high blood

52:02

pressure? yeah I don't know. Problem there

52:04

because. I am. I can

52:07

stay hard for for a while, you

52:09

know, and I'm not a bad summer

52:11

anyway. That's that's

52:13

the thing is that a it can.

52:15

It can also impact your beliefs. You

52:18

have an orgasm. Which. Is

52:20

frustrated. Yeah. Don't do that sometimes

52:22

and sometimes a dog park. I tell my

52:24

wife I said tom some problems at don't

52:26

bother me because it says. You.

52:28

Know the been able to please her and

52:31

feel her. Means. More

52:33

to me sometimes and my own. The

52:36

know. What? About getting your health

52:38

it'll in intact and seeing a doctor

52:40

and and kind of work at your blood

52:42

pressure because that would definitely help. I

52:44

yelled exercise has your diet nutrition. Yeah,

52:46

I I exercise wells. He told me I

52:48

went for my annual physicals. He told me

52:50

I needed to get back. In

52:53

the gym. The. Get my numbers back

52:55

on because the less than a pro monoamine

52:57

know on on the highest you can get

52:59

you can get know I see says if

53:01

I can get my numbers down south to

53:03

add another pill. Well. What are

53:06

your ac? You are some medication right now. And

53:08

I'll just that's. Also good impact

53:10

your ability to ejaculate. How

53:13

are you getting your blood flow

53:15

going and exercising will help every

53:17

area of your life including your.

53:20

Erection, your. Ability to desire

53:22

and exactly. So. It's less

53:24

secure. Certainly these are getting is that he

53:26

exercises you moving your body. it's going to

53:28

impact penis. You're gonna have applied slow everywhere

53:31

he wants. The odds on. I told her

53:33

I said the more exercise the better off it is for

53:35

me. Last. Thing: you can

53:37

get a workout buddy and you played your schedule.

53:39

We all have the same hours a day. If

53:41

you know that it's going to let have

53:43

you help you with your sex life, in your

53:46

connection with your wife. That's be. No.

53:48

I don't know what you're what motivates you, but to

53:50

me that sounds like that. A good reason to get

53:52

into a workout routine. Well. We've been

53:55

together a. Little.

53:57

Over. A year and a half we

53:59

just got. Married May first and ever

54:01

since we've been together, there's a

54:03

night we'd all unless you really,

54:05

really tired. We pretty

54:07

much our sex every night a week. But.

54:10

We change it up. Like.

54:12

when she's often seen on the order to next

54:14

day will. Mobile. Explores Gonna

54:16

Like Tyner have been things

54:19

like that Simon during during

54:21

the week. When. Csv up

54:23

at four in the morning. Sometimes we don't get to

54:25

do a lot of exploring. All of

54:27

a lot of boy. That's been now

54:29

that the on the weekends a hotel room or

54:31

something. Listen to your bagasse my lot

54:33

home and it's helped me so much with would.

54:36

Have tried some of things you said

54:38

and it's really made an impact with

54:40

her. It's like really burned or on

54:42

them. I was back so intercourse I

54:44

can get her off. Sometimes

54:46

I see can have multiple

54:49

orgasms. Amazing! I'm so glad

54:51

Wealth as orient some your mouth.

54:54

So. I don't really. Listen.

54:56

To you guys a lot appreciate all the

54:58

advice cause I started ripe of one I

55:00

got with her of and explore and anal.

55:03

And. I've checked with my doctor and I

55:05

said just cause they say guys got same

55:07

sensors as women do. Once. You

55:10

know, and Silva anal for all. Started.

55:13

Explore and I've gotta get a trainer kids

55:15

cycling because the thing that I got though

55:17

I had put a strap on on use

55:20

it was just too small you know said

55:22

it was too short so was actually hard

55:24

for her to get some good movement. So

55:27

appalled slowly experimenting that way C o on

55:29

it but I told her I've met willing

55:31

to try it up our roads. That's

55:33

and so happy to hear them. Process.

55:37

Female desire to be in I think the i

55:39

guess. He. Our part of my problem

55:41

my doctor said I have an enlarged prostate to

55:43

so it shouldn't be hard to hit. The

55:45

an orange. Up

55:47

all the was hoping sat I love

55:50

I love it as exploring. Your

55:52

with know that you called in that you're working on

55:54

this busy. Be seated, encourage you to work out. Maybe

55:56

you can work out together? You. Got

55:58

this week release A really great up. Today. Actually

56:02

fit. We talk a lot about working out how

56:04

are directly impacts are sex life see I want

56:06

to with that one as well. I did.

56:08

I listen. I've read or listen to it. On

56:10

the way home I'd go Chelsea see my dad's

56:12

I wasn't born on the way. almost. he was

56:14

sleep and. Oh I love it when

56:17

you sound like really loving your into this I

56:19

would just get your health attack and on that

56:21

services. And. Think as it's a so it helps

56:23

you. Stay. Inside as good as thank you

56:25

so much by Mark. Let me now. I. I.

56:27

Want to sound like a broken record here? but

56:29

truly. Our house, our nutrition. the

56:31

soon as he put in our body. How much

56:34

we move our body. All

56:36

are going to have a direct impact

56:38

on our sex life and are believed

56:40

to feel pleasure. You. Know, Like

56:42

Doctor Ayman says is that if he says the

56:45

doctor daniel him and says you know the palm

56:47

of your palms and your brain pagan having your

56:49

penis. And I disagree. Don't

56:51

realize how interconnected all these things. After

56:54

taking your medication, it might be impacting

56:56

your abilities in Iraq. Still hard have

56:58

an orgasm. School. In

57:00

keeping your house top of mine

57:02

seen doctors the answer to keep

57:05

moving our bodies because as direct

57:07

correlation between our health levels and

57:09

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57:11

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57:18

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