Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024
- - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.
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- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
- is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
- Criteria for diagnosis:
- 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
- 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
- 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
- 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
- 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
- 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
- 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
- 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
- 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
- A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:
- 1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
- 2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
- 3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
- 4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
- 5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
- 6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
- 7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
- 8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
- “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
- Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
- Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
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